Weddings...who gets the choice?

Wow, I thought my husband was bad when we planned our wedding lol. I actually got married Valentine's Day of this year so this is all too fresh in my mind! What I did was remind him that is it traditionally the bride's day and that ultimately the focus will be on you (bride). Its just how it goes. But, this is also the 21st century and guys want a say in stuff...fine but there has to be compromises. Weddings are way too stressful for you and him to be fighting. You both have to be flexible. Just speak up a little, defiantly do not cave in because this a celebration of YOU and him. The day zooms by anyways and you don't even have a chance to eat or anything. Its like a blur. So keep your head up and breathe. It will work out.